Angela Duckworth – Why We Can't Stick to Weight Loss

Hi folks, it’s Christopher Lawrence here without the transformations program. I wanted to share a really cool piece of research with you. This is called “Beyond willpower strategies for reducing failures of self control” “Beyond willpower strategies for reducing failures of self control” I wanted to read it twice just so that you could lock it in. So when we look at like weight loss or eating correctly, or exercising, or reducing inflammation in the body through adapting our food, why is it that we can’t seem to stay on track? With food there is a bit of a magic bullet. When you eat a certain way, you’ll produce certain results in the body. Certainly if you eat the healthy transformations way, you’re going to reduce inflammation, lose weight and beat the odds of having chronic illness but our behaviors there doesn’t seem to be a magic bullet, we hear things like, well, if I have a fresh start, or if I have a plan, or you know, maybe if I go do some behavioral therapy, then that’ll be the thing that fixes it. And sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn’t. So why is that? What’s the difference? The really key thing with this is that there is actually no bullet for behavioral change or for managing behavioral change. And the challenge that we continually run into is why is it that, you know, when I did say, goal setting as my tactic for exercise that worked really well and maybe I added planning and tracking into that as one of my tactics that worked really well. But then when I did correct eating, I use those same tactics and it didn’t work. Why is that? Why is it? And we can drive ourselves bonkers with this stuff.

I know even with me for years and years and years, I was like, why is it that this works for me and this doesn’t work for me, or it doesn’t work over here when it worked over here. And so it’s like, we’re just taking a shot gun and trying to pinpoint the center of a target. But what does a shotgun do? it just kind of blast the whole thing away and it’s not pinpointed enough to kind of get the results. Well, if you’re feeling frustrated, it’s actually a very common thing because we don’t know what’s actually gonna work. There is no magic bullet when it comes to behavioral change, habit shifting, or anything like that. And what I love about this piece of research is that Angela Duckworth and her team Katherine Milkman and David Laibson, I believe is how you say their name. They are from the University of Pennsylvania, they are researchers, they’re psychologists who are researchers. I think all of them are psychologists, research psychologists. In any case, they put together a list, a detailed list of 22 different tactics that they could identify that had been researched to some level. Some to great detail and some to not so great detail. So what that tells me is that there’s probably even more tactics out there, but these are the ones that they could find that had been researched, that had some effect. And what they’ve come to is that, not one tactic works for one person all of the time for whatever that goal or habit that they’re working on is, it could take a combination of tactics, a lot of trial and error.

So if it seems a little bit frustrating, a little bit overwhelming, a little bit confusing about why sometimes something works and why sometimes it doesn’t when we’re looking at behavioral change, it’s because of this because, we don’t actually know what the combination is gonna be for you that’s gonna make it work. What’s cool about it though, is that we have a whole bunch of different options that we can choose from, and what I like about this article is that they actually go right into and there’s a nice little cool diagram in here. They talk about self deployed versus other deployed, and situational versus cognitive. And so we have lots of options to choose from and so if this is something that you’re interested in, you should check us out healthytransformations.ca and you can learn more about this and how it applies to weight loss and you can reach out to us and attend one of our info sessions.

Still Struggling with Food Cravings: Try These Helpful Tactics

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Cravings. The word alone makes me cringe and feel guilty, just thinking about eating low-nutrient foods. We all have them, and we all have caved to our urges at one time or another. But you don’t have to. While it isn’t easy, everyone can gain more willpower and replace our poor food choices with healthy ones.

The Science of Craving

Every time we give in to a craving, we reinforce the neural pathway to continuing to eat this way. This means, it makes it even more challenging to stay strong and not give in the next time. It’s like any compulsion or addiction, acting or doing the very thing you crave only weakens your willpower the next time you are faced with a craving. In fact, neurologically speaking, fast food isn’t much different than hard drugs.

Another interesting fact about cravings is that our gut bacteria play a significant role with cravings! Recent research shows that what we eat gives our body specific instructions. So, if we feed our body the right high-nutrient foods, you kill the bacteria that are hungry for those “incorrect” foods!

So, What to Do?

Well, there are two schools of thought on dealing with cravings. Both are helpful, but each addresses a different aspect of cravings.

Distraction.

The first is to distract yourself with something else, an activity that takes your attention away, such as, walking, reading, or tidying up. Find something that you enjoy or that requires you to think or move. This will refocus your thoughts and attention to what you are doing, and you will forget about eating. And while you might enjoy watching a bit of TV, I don’t recommend it’s often associated with mindless eating. By dulling your senses, it lowers your defences against cravings. However, distracting yourself from wanting to eat is a short-term strategy. It can be effective at the moment but doesn’t create the lasting results that will help transform your life.

Face Your Cravings

The second school of thought and I think the more effective path is to sit with the discomfort of the craving without running away from it. Avoidance or ‘numbing’ the feeling by busying yourself is an effective band-aid if you need to get through the moment, and I don’t want to discount the importance of that tool. Still, it is essential to face the craving and understand where it comes from. Not only will this strengthen your long-term willpower, but it will also help address and solve the root of those pesky urges for unhealthy foods.

Journal

One way that I find really useful is to journal. I grab a pen and paper as I like the tactical feeling of writing and doing something with my hands, and I jot down the following:

  • What am I noticing about my emotions right now?
  • What am I noticing about my thinking right now? What thoughts am I experiencing?
  • What do I notice in my body? What sensations am I experiencing?
  • What does my intuition tell me? Do a gut check!

Once you are finishing writing these answers down, observe and watch how these things shift and change in your mind. Notice that by not giving in to the craving, that the world, your world, is ok. At first, this will probably feel a bit difficult and uncomfortable, maybe even that it isn’t working. But that’s ok, because each time you sit with your thoughts and cravings, it will become easier to automatically turn those cravings into healthy choices.

In other words, don’t rush through the cravings and avoid them or numb yourself to them. Instead, be with your cravings and make friends. After all, keep your enemies closer, right? The more you face them, the less control they will have over your life.

Plan and Be Prepared

Remember, just because you have a craving, doesn’t mean you need to act on it. I would suggest creating a plan for your cravings. As most people know their ‘trigger’ foods and the typical examples that they crave, it helps to know ahead of time what you plan to do when that craving hits. I LOVE popcorn, so as I know this is a trigger for me, so my plan would be as simple as:

  • When I am craving popcorn, I will meditate for 5 minutes and focus on my breathing. If I am unable to meditate, I will go for a walk and then write for 10 minutes in my journal about what I am feeling.

So your example could be something like:

  • When I am craving {insert food}, I will {fill in blanks with lots of ideas of what you can do, including the suggestions in this post}.

Writing out your plans is more effective than only thinking about them. It doesn’t need to be elaborate, bullet-point works too. Do what works for you!

Lastly, make sure you eat two meals and three snacks a day. There is enough evidence to suggest that if you keep up your eating throughout the day, cravings are more easily curbed.

Additional Resources

If you need a bit of extra support and information, check out these four important questions for even more help understanding the thoughts and behaviours behind mindless eating. Remember, you are not alone, we all experience cravings, and everyone has caved at one point. If you give in, that’s ok. Be kind to yourself and start again. If it helps, journal for 5 to 10 minutes about it to learn from it. No journey is perfect, but we can get stronger with every step we take and learn from.

Christopher James Lawrence is a Co-Founder of the Healthy Transformations Program with Dr. Mike Breen.  He is also the Chief Value Officer and Founder of Change My Life Coaching and Co-Founder of Change My Business Coaching — a fast growing whole-life, leadership and business coaching company, and the only one of it’s kind.  He is also the author of “Go Beyond Passion: Discover Your Dream Job”.  Christopher is a Certified Master Coach Practitioner (CMCP), trainer and facilitator, and a passionate public speaker that truly cares about the success of each and every single person he comes into contact with. You can reach him here.