How Do I Help Someone Who Needs to Lose Weight?

Hi folks, Christopher Lawrence with healthytransformations.CA. I did wanna to talk to you about something just a little bit more serious today. I know some of you have friends and family who, you’re worried about, you’re worried about their health problems, you’re worried about inflammation in their body, you’re worried about their weight and it’s hard to talk to them about it. I’ve got a few folks in my family too and it’s hard to talk to them about it. And so I wanted to give you just a couple of tips about how you can talk to people about this. And the most authentic way that I have been able to do this is actually just being straightforward with compassion. So we call it, honesty with compassion. And we always talk about it from a place of concerns.

So I talk about it from the perspective that I care about you a lot. I love you and I’m concerned about your health. You are an influencer in my life. I look to you, you’re part of my support system. You’re part of my village. And when I see what’s happening with you, with your body, I’m concerned, I’m worried. And I wanted to know if we could have a conversation about that. Sometimes they’re going to say no, and if they say no, you say, okay, great, thank you. There’s nothing else for us to talk about and end the conversation, that’s all that you can do. Don’t push it. Nothing, Unless you’re doing an intervention, in which case you should probably have a professional there to do that. But otherwise you kind of come at it from the perspective of just compassion and, and if they say, okay, let’s talk about it, but I’m not going to change anything and talk about it. and stick to a place of facts. It’s like, I, I noticed that you ate three pizzas last night. and I don’t say that to be ridiculous because there are people who do , I noticed that you had three pizzas last night. That’s concerning to me. That’s not healthy. I noticed that there’s been some weight gain , right? So we try to stick to facts and then we talk about the concern and then, and then we make a request, So there’s this kind of really cool thing called nonviolent communication. You can check it out. I’m not going to teach it on this video, but you can check out nonviolent communication. There’s four simple steps to it, and you can even use that as an opportunity to prepare a conversation as well. Christopher Lawrence, healthytransformation.CA. Make sure you take care of your community, folks. Have a good one. Bye bye.